Women and even girls are so critical with themselves. Pointing out every single flaw, or what they think is a flaw. Girls and women from all over the world are fighting within themselves because of all the media that is shown to us. They have created an image for how THEY THINK a beautiful woman should look like or how a mother should look or even act like. It’s horrible what they’ve done to try to influence us.
I’m here to tell you all gorgeous women reading this right now! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Not just on the outside, but the inside. You have to understand WHO YOU ARE! There is no one in the world like you. There is no one in the world like me. We are all made differently and we all have a special touch. Unfortunately, we are taught to compare our special touches. Which is complete insanity! Not just that, but we are taught to play a competition with other women to get the attention or approval of men! I-N-S-A-N-E!
Enough rambling about that! I can literally talk about THAT forever. Let’s instead talk about WHY it’s important to love your flaws! There is a few good reasons actually that is beyond just looks!
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Now don’t get me wrong. It’s HARD! It’s difficult to accept things that we just plain out don’t like. Is it wrong for wanting to improve or enhance your flaws? Not really. There will be days where you learn a new flaw that you have. You may not like it, it may take days, weeks or even months to accept it. But accepting it for what it is, is the key to confidence! You have to remember to let all the good qualities that you have outweigh the bad. Everyone has a bit of both. How you carry it is up to you!
You won’t just have one flaw. Yeah right! You will have many just like the other 7 Billion people on this Earth! So you’re not alone. Your overall beauty, internal and external will always outweigh the bad.
You should never give more focus and attention to just the bad. Do you understand what that is doing to your mind and confidence? Don’t do that to yourself! Focus on all the qualities that you are best at! Watch how your view of yourself will change. And really, you will begin to love yourself so much that you then start realizing that you never had flaws to begin with, because your flaws make YOU who YOU ARE, causing you to be FLAWLESS baby!
You got this girl! I have flaws, you have flaws, she has flaws, they have flaws, we literally all have flaws! Don’t beat yourself up about it. The difference is how you carry them. Personally, I like to carry my flaws with me because they are a part of me. They make me who I am today. Screw the media and any one who feels that women need to perfect in order to be beautiful! That is psychotic!