This should never be concern.
Unfortunately it is.
I like to think of men like dogs. Hear me out.
Not all dogs are bad, most dogs are loyal.
But sometimes your loyal dog can still get distracted with a squirrel climbing up the tree.
Loyal dogs would look but not be silly enough to go chase after yet.
These are the men we have to thank and show them how good they have it at home.
The men that are foolish enough to chase after that squirrel are most likely not worth the effort.
It should never be that easy.
As much as I feel that men should honor and respect their wife as much or even more than they love them.
Men just think very differently than women.
And woman think very differently than men.
So here’s the difference. Woman are smart!
Woman need to play their game, but better.
An amazing book that has given me quite a bit of insight is… totally worth buying! Married or in the dating world, this book gives such great insight to how the man runs his engine. Not to mention this is written for women!
So what I’ve learned and observed is that men are very visual beings.
With that being said, I will give you 10 different ways a woman, a wife, a spouse can keep his attention on you.
Do we need to do this ladies?
Well in my opinion. Yes, we do. It’s just a part of the many hats we wear.
We shouldn’t need to do this, but we should want to do it. It gives our loved ones a little reminder.
Everyone could use reminders every now and then.
I believe a lot of women (including myself) get stuck in the “routine” and the jobs and the responsibilities that not only do we forget to love ourselves but we kinda forget about the needs or wants of our loved one too.
Let me first say that before focusing on your spouse and their desires. You first need to focus on yourself. Fill your cup up first before trying to fill anyone else’s.
Okay, let me point out something very important.
That area is not just for our man.
It’s for ourselves.
The feeling of feeling sexy, invincible and just on top of this world…
there’s no other feeling for a woman.
Don’t be afraid to put on that cute dress!
Have an off the shoulder blouse?
That always gets his attention.
The amazing thing is that you can play dress up without having to leave the house. Again, don’t just do it for him, do it for yourself.
Remind yourself how sexy your skin is.
TWO: FLIRT WITH HIM
Hugs with rubs. The list goes on.
THREE: SEND A FRIENDLY REMINDER
Okay guys, we live in a new world where technology is the thing.
Don’t feel comfortable sending a picture. No shame.
You can still send some words instead.
Yes, it’s terrifying, heart pacing because of how nervous, but it feels amazing to be able to do that for your loyal man.
FOUR: DOMINATE HIM
“It’s a mans world”
That’s what we let them believe for their ego purpose. With that being said, it’s good from time to time to remind him who really is in control.
You can take it how you want to take it. (;
FIVE: SURPRISE HIM
Just like us women like to be surprised, men like to be surprised too.
Giving that special little something to someone to remind them that you were thinking of them is one of the best feelings ever.
When is the last time you have surprised your man?
The thing with public affection is that you are claiming your man.
I feel like all of us ladies love when our man is showing us off to the world, making sure to hold our hand, be around us, hug us, kiss us.
Because let’s be real, they do this to show the world, SHE IS MINE!
It’s a great feeling for us women. Let’s now do the same for them.
Again. Not just for him.
But for you!
Feeling confident in your own skin
is the sexiest thing in the world!
Why would he have to go looking if he has the total package next to him?
And let me explain, you DON’T need to feel like you have to win his attention!
That should never be the case.
You should just want to do it to thank your loyal and loving man.
What were his favorite hobbies growing up?
Is it something you can partake in?
Now, ladies you have to be careful with this one because there could be time where this particular hobby is to get away from everything…including you.
Don’t take it personal.
But every blue moon it would be great to be involved.
If not, then that simple verbal support is sometimes everything!
I’ve always felt weird telling a man they look good?
But then again I want them to tell me.
I then came to the conclusion that it shouldn’t be like that.
A great way to start if complimenting is hard for you too is to acknowledge.
Little or big things, speaking up and letting them know.
I didn’t want to title this put your make up on.
Because you DON’T need to put make up on to look your prettiest.
So I titled this get yourself up.
Change your clothes, do your hair, wash your face and brush your teeth.
Sure, having bummy days will happen. Those are the best more relaxing.
But for the most part, look decent.
Notice how a lot of these are for visualizing!
Humans naturally are people who love to see.
Can you name something else you do that helps your relationship?